In Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson, Melinda wishes that her teacher Ms. Keen would teach her something more “Practical… information about why hormones can make you crazy, or why your face only breaks out at the worst time, or how to tell if somebody really gave you a valentine.”(pg. 109) Instead of learning about the “birds and the bees” Melinda wants to learn about love and betrayal.
Even though the idea of having a crash course on life in school would be a great idea, humans are required to learn it else where. Instead of a class, one must learn from experience- and instead of in a normal class, failing at first is expected and encouraged. To understand love and betrayal one must have a first hand experience to truly understand it. Between failed romances and fights with friends, people learn how to trust and how to treat others.
Even though we all have different ways of learning, one cannot truly learn what love is from a book. Although a story can give a great example of love, the reader can never fully understand the feelings of the characters involved. They cannot understand the feeling the character gets when they see their beloved, or how the different emotions affect them when they are around. Because the reader cannot physically be in the characters mind, they will ever understand the whole emotion. Not every little thought can be explained in a book, so one can never understand exactly what is going through the characters mind. Nobody will truly understand these feelings until they themselves experience the emotions that come with love.





